:D or $ – Happiness is more important, right?

Material wealth does not equal happiness. Studies have shown that beyond a certain level of income, money doesn’t make much difference anymore. We have all heard of stories of billionaires living in misery because they sacrificed everything, and also those who are have nothing but living in perfect harmony.

But do we really believe in any of this?

Not really.

Just ask yourself if you are doing “this” and not “that” (which you enjoy more) because “this” pays better.

Is it because earning more money feels freakin’ awesome? The thrill of getting a raise or closing a big sale is not only gratifying but also serves as the beacon of light in the midst of mundane tasks. However, the thrill wears off soon enough. Before you know it you are stuck with more work and spending more money to compensate your loved ones. Years later you realize this sucks but can’t get out of it because the huge mortgage that you thought was a good idea. On top of that, you don’t really want to get out of it because you become good at it. One day you look back and you forgot the thrill you were chasing after, and you ask, “Why didn’t I spend time on what I love?”

Of course, by “you” I don’t actually mean you. This is a cautionary tale for myself: stay focused on what matters.